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Awareness
Seeing yourself and situations clearly
Also covers Alertness and Consciousness
What does awareness mean as a core value?
Awareness as a core value means paying close attention to what’s really happening, in a room, in a situation and in yourself, so you can respond to it clearly.
You want to know what’s really going on, around you and inside you. For you, awareness starts with paying attention: to the mood in a room, to how your tone lands, to the early signs of stress in yourself or trouble in a project. Being caught off guard bothers you, especially when the signs were there all along. Seeing yourself clearly, blind spots included, matters more to you than a flattering picture.
What does awareness look like in practice?
- You notice the colleague who went quiet halfway through the meeting and check in afterwards.
- You ask for feedback on how you come across and take it seriously.
- You catch yourself getting defensive and name it before it runs the conversation.
- You spot the early signs that a project or a friendship is drifting.
- You know which situations bring out the worst in you, and you prepare for them.
When is awareness overplayed?
Too much awareness becomes hypervigilance. You scan every interaction for what it might mean, second-guess your own reactions, and struggle to switch off because there’s always something else to notice. Self-awareness can slide into self-absorption, with so much attention on how you’re coming across that you’re not fully present with anyone. In balance, it notices, then lets go. One thing you could try is giving yourself a set time to reflect on the day, then leaving the noticing there until tomorrow.
Often confused with
Awareness vs Mindfulness
Mindfulness is a practice of attending to the present moment without judgement. Awareness is broader, taking in patterns, blind spots and situations that stretch beyond the moment.
Awareness vs Emotional intelligence
Emotional intelligence is using an understanding of emotions to handle people well. Awareness is the noticing that comes first, and it covers far more than feelings.
Awareness vs Insight
Awareness sees clearly what is there. Insight understands why it’s there, reading the meaning beneath what you’ve noticed.
Questions to sit with
- What do people close to you see about you that you’re only just starting to see?
- Which warning signs did you notice last time something went wrong, and what did you do with them?
- Where would noticing less actually help you?
More values in Wisdom
Understanding, insight and good judgement.
About the author
Matt Rutherford is a Career and Leadership Coach. The Values Finder is the same exercise he uses with his coaching clients. He also writes Stuff that MattRs, a weekly newsletter with practical ideas to help you think clearer and work better.
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